“Just born pikin, the pikin go grow, this marriage thing no dey work” — Timaya

 Nigerian music icon **Inetimi Timaya Odon**, better known as **Timaya**, has once again stirred widespread debate with his blunt take on marriage, declaring in a viral video clip that “**Just born pikin, the pikin go grow, this marriage thing no dey work**.”

The self-acclaimed “Ego Ogbono” made the candid remark during a casual conversation captured on video, where he appeared to advise single men—amid laughter from those around him—to prioritize fatherhood over rushing into matrimony. Speaking in Pidgin English, the Port Harcourt-born singer suggested that having children outside of marriage might be a more practical path in today's world, as he believes traditional marriage often fails to deliver lasting fulfillment or stability.

“Just born pikin, the pikin go grow, this marriage thing no dey work,” Timaya stated plainly in the short clip, which has since gone viral across social media platforms, sparking mixed reactions from fans, colleagues, and netizens. Some praised his honesty and relatability, while others criticized the statement as discouraging to those who value committed partnerships, with comments ranging from “Marriage works with the right person” to questions about the logistics of single parenthood.

Timaya, a father of four children from previous relationships, has long been open about his personal stance on marriage. In earlier interviews, including one with Naija FM, he revealed that he has never felt compelled to walk down the aisle, emphasizing his focus on being a present father rather than conforming to societal expectations of wedlock.

The 45-year-old Dancehall and Afrobeats star, known for chart-topping hits like “Balance,” “Sweet Us,” and “No Pressure,” continues to enjoy massive success in his career while maintaining a private personal life. His latest comments have reignited conversations about evolving views on relationships, family structures, and commitment in modern Nigerian society.

Timaya remains unapologetic in expressing his perspectives through his music and public utterances, often drawing from real-life experiences to connect with his audience.

We respect Timaya's right to share his views and acknowledge the diverse opinions this topic evokes. The artist is currently focused on his music projects and family. Further updates will be provided from official sources as they become available.