Nollywood actor recently opened up in a candid interview with Jay On Air about why he couldn't maintain a significant past relationship

 Nollywood actor **Timini Egbuson** recently opened up in a candid interview with Jay On Air about why he couldn't maintain a significant past relationship, even as he achieved financial success and wealth.

He described losing a woman he believes was his **soulmate** as one of his biggest regrets. At the time, Timini was heavily focused on building his career and financial stability—he prioritized work, long hours, and "putting food on the table," believing that providing money was the main way to show love. He assumed his partner would understand his frequent absences and lack of presence because of these efforts.

However, this approach backfired. His partner simply wanted emotional availability, attention, and for him to **show up** consistently. The relationship lacked depth beyond finances, and she eventually left and married someone else who could offer the presence and emotional support he wasn't providing.

Timini now realizes that **money alone isn't enough** to sustain a relationship. He emphasized:

- Money is important but "just one out of many things that matter."

- Emotional presence, active listening, remembering details, genuine interest in your partner's life, and good communication are crucial.

- If all a man brings to a relationship is money, "then you're a very shallow man."

- Focusing only on financial provision can attract the wrong people or shift the dynamic to one where love is measured materially.

- He admitted his own shortcomings, like poor communication, selfishness, and being emotionally unavailable due to his busy schedule.

This reflection shows personal growth—he's shifted his perspective and now values balance between success and being fully present in relationships. The interview clip has gone viral, sparking discussions about the real costs of prioritizing career over emotional connection in modern relationships.

" if all you bring is money , you are a shallow man"

- Timini pic.twitter.com/mIyl0kpcGf

— Metro Naija (@metronaija) February 5, 2026